回答問題: 你對男人或愛情感到絕望了嗎? Answer question: Do you already desperate about men or getting into a relationship?

回答問題: 你對男人或愛情感到絕望了嗎?
Answer question: Do you already desperate about men or getting into a relationship?



我想鄭重的告訴大家，我沒有放棄尋找一個男人(女人)作為我的伴侶，並且擁有另一個婚禮。

I would announce loudly to everyone I did not give up for seeking/meeting a man or a woman as my spouse and have another wedding indeed.



在 過去10年裡，有些男人/女人走進我的生命中，我們有過美好的時光，當然也有難過的日子。有時候我被傷害，有時候我傷害了別人，但這些全都豐富了我的生命 之書。(是的，約莫10年前，從有一個英國老男人告訴我，每一個人的人生都像一本書，你可以以你的方式在這本書上書寫、繪畫。當越多有趣和特別的事，發生 在你的生命中，你的書就有更多的色彩。我在康河溺水之後，他和我說了這些話。) 有多少次，我都以為我在愛情中，也將溺死，但總究仍然往前走過。

In the past 10 years, some guys/women walked into my life and we had some great time and also bad time. Sometimes I am hurt and sometimes I hurt the other but all enriched my life book and always appreciate they came to my life no matter for a short or long period. (Yes, 10 years ago, an old English man told me people’s life is as book and you can write/draw your own book on your way. While more interesting or special things happen in your life, your book is more colourful. He told me about it after I almost drown in Cambridge River in 1999) Many times I also thought I nearly drown in a relationship but eventually I still move on in the end.

我必須承認有將近五、六年的時間，我是那種無法真正單身，而不和別人約會、調情。也許那該被稱之為 我人生中，相當有冒險性的時代。 (雖然Only和寂寞(Lonely) 應該是好朋友，因為有一所歌叫Only Lonely)  直到近幾年，我告訴我自己，我想學習獨自一個人，但不寂寞，學習擁有不複雜的感情生活。這並不容易，我很努力的學習著。有時候我失敗了，然後回到我習慣的 生活。我有意識的察覺自己，然後調整自己，讓自己走在我所希望的道路上，而且我可以感覺自己更好了。我想我現在應該在接近我想要的那個位置。於是，這是我 可以和自己結婚的時間點了。我不能說，我不再有恐懼，但我更加完整了。

 I should admire for nearly five or six years I was the person who does not know how to be real single and no dating /flirting with someone in my life. Maybe it could be called a very adventure age in my life. (Although Only & Lonely should be friends forever as the song “Only Lonely”) Until few years ago I told myself I want to learn　to be alone but not lonely and learn to have an uncomplicated relationship life. It is not easy and I tried very hard. Sometimes I failed and get back the life I used to have. Consciously I adjusted myself to the way I want and I can feel better myself. Now I really feel everything is getting there. It is time to marry myself. I can not say I have no fears but feel become more completed.

有些人說結婚是你和你自己的另一半的結合，因此變得更完整。然而，對我而言，我想遇見另一個完整的 人。為了要遇見另一個完整的人，我應該成為一個完整的人。由於我相信2個人完整的人，會有一個更好的圓滿，因為這是2倍的幸福。這就是為什麼我將在和別人 結婚之前，要先和自己結婚。

Some people say a marriage is someone who is like your half part. Then you become completed while you meet the person and get together.  However, for me, I want to meet a completed person instead. Therefore, I should be completed one in order to meet the other who is completed.  As I believe two completed people will have a better circle since it is double happiness. This why I would marry myself before marry the other.