回答問題: 你不可能永遠停留30歲! Answer the question: You can not stay at your 30 years old forever!

在任何 “普通”的婚姻中，你和某人結婚，假設你是和30歲的他/她結婚 (30歲只是舉例，可以是年紀更大或更小)。然後，他/她總會隨時間逐漸變老。因此，有時候在生活中，他/她的外表、想法及其他的部分改變了或改變了，但 因為他/她的內在本質是不變的，所以你仍然愛他/她。

Any other "NORMAL" marriage, you marry someone, as he/she is 30 (or younger or older, 30, it is just an example age). Then he/she will be getting older by time.Therefore, sometimes he/she will change (or will be changed) his/her appearance, thoughts or other matters in life but you will be with her/him as the gut is never changed.




我和我自己的30歲結婚，我明白我不可能保有相同的外貌 (希望，也許可以變得更好!) ，甚至我知道在身體上，逐年我都將老一歲。同時，透過面對不同的人、遇見不同的事、體驗人生中不同風采，我的想法將從現在這裡走到另一個那裡。 也許我現在可以說，我將永遠保有30歲的心智，但我多麼了解自己，每次我說 “保持” 通常是指 “改變”。

I marry myself, my 30 years old but I do know I can not keep the appearance (maybe can be better, hopefully) and even I know physically I will be one more year older every year. Also, through facing different people and meeting different things, experiencing different colour in life, I will move my thought from here to there. Maybe I can now say I can keep my 30 years old mind forever.

每天在生活中，我總會有不同的方式呈現我自己。雖然也許我將用許多不同的方式，詮釋我的生活，但是無論現在或未來，我最內在的本質將不會改變。這也是我想和自己結婚的理由: 給最初的自己的誓言。

  However, I know myself, even I said “keep” but it always means “change”.  Every single day I will always present myself in a different way.  The inner gut will be here now and future although I may have different interpretations for my life.  This is the reason I marry myself: a vow to the very original myself.